FREE ESSAY ON JAPANESE IN PHILIPPINES

JAPANESE IN PHILIPPINES

I've had my own share of relationships and experienced the ups and downs. Yet it never did
it occur to me that the cause for such experiences would be because of what my boyfriend
and I were born with: our races. Being biracial myself, (Japanese and Filipino) I have
come across many different aspects of both cultures. My mom is Filipino, and my dad is
Japanese. They may be different in race but their love for each other is all the same.
Initially, it was not that easy. The Japanese did invade the Philippines during World War
two and my mom felt some bitterness towards the Japanese. However, she later concluded
that after meeting my father, her bitterness was gone. My parents are a prime example of
that love sees no boundaries. Sometimes I wonder if my life would be different being
single race, but I've adopted many positive beliefs from both cultures and races. There
are many reasons why I approve of interracial couples. It makes me furious when you see
people on t.v. shows arguing about a white guy dating a black girl. How can someone try
to prevent another from being with someone they truly love? Can something so ridiculous
be justified? When you love someone, the barriers of superficiality - appearance, social
status, and ethnicity diminish. When all else fails, Love conquers all.
The issue of interracial dating is somewhat controversial as it affects almost everyone
who engages in it. Not only the couples themselves, but those around them. Interracial
dating is often a problem is because of events which might have happened in the past. My
parents for example probably would have never met if my mother hadn't stopped feeling
bitter about the Japanese invasion. In relation, an African mother may disapprove of her
son dating a Caucasian female because of slavery in the past. Therefore, the past often
has a way of coming back, not always for the best. It also the case that stereotype rules
the majority of a single race. What people don't know much about, they don't condone.
Furthermore, many people would agree that sticking to their own race will preserve their
own identity and culture. They feel that leaning outside of their race may take away from
their own beliefs. But on the contrary, limiting themselves from what the world has to
offer closes the doors to finding out not only about other races and cultures, but from
their own as well. Somehow, everyone seems to be linked to others of various
backgrounds.
In the Filipino culture, it would be unorthodox for someone to date another out of her
race. Many Filipino parents would agree that they'd be more approving of a fellow
Filipino partner for their son or daughter. Rather than being open-minded towards other
cultures and races, they not only limit themselves, but they also limit their children
from what the world offers. The world is a cultural melting pot and to be closed-minded
is like restraining yourself from knowing more. Indifference often arises ignorance and
the fewer people know about something, the less they agree or promote it. Therefore,
interracial dating allows others to become more informed about other races and cultures.
Initially, I did have a few stereotypes of my own regarding people of different races.
One view in particular was one I had about Caucasian males. I always thought they'd only
court other Caucasian girls and never go for an Asian like myself. So, I limited myself
for awhile. Little did I know that shortly after, I would be going out with a white male
myself. Although we came from different backgrounds, I had come to the realization that
we really had a lot in common. We liked the same music, movies and sports. We really
weren't as different as I thought. 
Coming from two totally different backgrounds, we did have conflicting beliefs and
traditions. But, in having such vast qualities, we were able to share them. Being
together brought out the best in each other, therefore our different norms were.
Basically, we thought that we had the best of both worlds. We were able to share
different qualties from our different cultures. 
To be someone you want to be with, shouldn't have such boundaries of limiting yourself to
a certain race. We most often love another, not for what they are, but who they are.
There are so many negative vibrations all over the world due to hate which hurts very
much when someone puts another down for loving someone. Is it not enough for someone to
give a significant other great happiness in life? When two people share something
special, no one has the right to take that away from them.